Sinopse
What's the purpose of life? How do we find happiness? What is happiness? We discuss real life situations to find what we need to do to find happiness. To do this, we have to sometimes go against our instincts. This is called "beating your genes". Listen as I, Nate G, your host, talks with Dr. Doug LIsle, evolutionary psychologist, about life, love, relationships, and most importantly finding happiness in the modern world. We are live on Wednesdays at 8:30-9:30pm PST. If you have a question or comment, or maybe even a complicated situation that you'd like some advice on, feel free to call us live at 657-383-0751 or email us at [email protected] .
Episódios
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32: Listener emails & questions
15/09/2016 Duração: 44minWe'll read & answer listener emails & questions.
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30: Listener questions
01/09/2016 Duração: 58minEmail any questions to [email protected] or call in 657-383-0751 Some of the questions we'll go over... From listeners: 1) Why do we see a huge discrepancy between societies empathy towards human needs until it comes to sexual satisfaction. We use tax money to fund basic needs of all kinds but if you're a sexual loser you're basically on your own in every way shape and form. Aren't outcast losers in the sexual realm more likely to become radical, rebellious, dangerous to the group? Are there any "stone age" examples of us quelling these dangers and are there any modern examples? 2) Western men seem to be overwhelmed because they are seeing the women they want drenched in sexual attention and it is petrifying them, often at an early age. Age difference is key here because guys in middle to late teens are just starting to figure out their place in the world, but teen girls the moment they hit legal status can be launched all the way into status and they aren't often keen to hide it. Western society is
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29: Grudges, Sports, and Rivalry
25/08/2016 Duração: 52minEvolutionary pscyhology explains grudges, sports competitions, and the rivalries that go with it.
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28: Listener questions & call-ins
18/08/2016 Duração: 55minIf you've listened to an episode and had some questions or comments, now's the show to call in and ask them. Email me with your questions [email protected] or call in 657-383-0751 live at 8:30pm PST.
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27: How to Make Great Friends
11/08/2016 Duração: 01h05minHow do we make such great friends? We'll answer this question by going over an article called "Why Men Are Better at Friendship Than Women"
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26: What He Says vs. What He Means
04/08/2016 Duração: 54minA humorously scientific look about what men say vs. what they mean.
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25: What she says vs. What she means
28/07/2016 Duração: 54minA humorously scientific look about what women say and what they really mean.
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24: Keys to a Successful Relationship
21/07/2016 Duração: 57minWe will discuss: - Why Do Relationships Fail? - What your partner says vs. what they mean - Comment on ways to "Hack Your Relationship" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Feel free to call with your own story, question, or comment at 657-383-0751. We are live on Wednesdays at 8:30pm PST. Or email us at [email protected]
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23: Do opposites attract?
14/07/2016 Duração: 58minIn this episode, we discuss a prominent psychologist's approach to relationships (called Emotional Focused Therapy) and how it relates to evolutionary psychology. We will hear a discussion between Dr. Lisle and a Marriage & Family Therapist on the differences between their approaches. We discuss an article about the key to relationship happiness. We go over more real life examples and questions.
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22: More real life examples of relationship conflict
07/07/2016 Duração: 59minListen in as we go over a few real examples from our listeners of relationship conflicts. If you have a situation you'd like some help with please email us at [email protected] or call in to the show live on Wednesdays at 8:30pm PST at 657-383-0751
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21: Real life examples of relationship conflict
30/06/2016 Duração: 57minListen in as we go over a few real examples from our listeners of relationship conflicts. If you have a situation you'd like some help with please email us at [email protected] or call in to the show live at 657-383-0751
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20: Common Relationship Problems & how to solve them
23/06/2016 Duração: 59minNate G and Dr. Doug Lisle discuss common dating traps that men and women find themselves in. We will also go over some listener comments/emails. If you'd like some advice from Dr. Lisle, feel free to email us at [email protected] or call in live at 657-383-0751 at 7:30pm PST on Wednesdays.
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19: Common Dating Traps & how to avoid them
16/06/2016 Duração: 58minNate G and Dr. Doug Lisle discuss common dating traps that men and women find themselves in. We will also go over some listener comments/emails. If you'd like some advice from Dr. Lisle, feel free to email us at [email protected] or call in live at 657-383-0751 at 7:30pm PST on Wednesdays.
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18: Which men and women "hook up" the most
09/06/2016 Duração: 58minWe discuss which type of people hooks up the most.
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17: Caller asks Dr. Lisle about polyamory
02/06/2016 Duração: 55minPyschologist Dr. Doug Lisle, PhD, takes a call from a man looking to learn more about human mating psychology If any listeners would like to call and ask advice from Dr. Lisle for a show, please email [email protected]
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16: How much should you spend on first date?
26/05/2016 Duração: 54minHave the dating games changed in 2 million years? Dr. Lisle reacts to a funny clip about why dating is so frustrating for women in the modern world. Why do women complain about men? Why do men complain about women? The next question Dr. Lisle goes over is a GQ article that asks "How much should a man spend on a first date?" Copyright Beat Your Genes Podcast Host: Nathan Gershfeld Interviewee: Doug Lisle, Ph.D. www.BeatYourGenes.org Intro & outro song: City of Happy Ones · Ferenc Hegedus
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14: The Evolution of Relations in the Human Species
17/05/2016 Duração: 01h04minIn terms of human history, how did the idea of "locking someone into a relationship" develop? Dr. Lisle discusses the evolution of relations in the human species eventually getting to why are people winding up in a relationship that they feel they have to stay in. There is a brief discussion about the book Sex at Dawn and the argument for polyamory. We find out that the modern world brings modern dilemnas in dating but we still operate under the same psychology as that of our ancient ancestors. Copyright Beat Your Genes Podcast Host: Nathan Gershfeld Interviewee: Doug Lisle, Ph.D. www.BeatYourGenes.org Intro & outro song: City of Happy Ones · Ferenc Hegedus
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13: Making Yourself More Date-able Part 2
12/05/2016 Duração: 01h10sPart 2 from last week's episode: You might never become a Brad Pitt or Cindy Crawford, but that shouldn't stop you from trying. Last episode, we went over the right moves to make to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex. This show, we'll get to all the listener comments and questions about how to make yourself more attractive. Join Nathan Gershfeld and Dr. Doug Lisle in a show designed to help you find happiness and navigate the modern world with what you've got. A show where you''ll learn how to outsmart your genes to find true, lasting happiness. Copyright Beat Your Genes Podcast Host: Nathan Gershfeld Interviewee: Doug Lisle, Ph.D. www.BeatYourGenes.org Intro & outro song: City of Happy Ones · Ferenc Hegedus