Sinopse
Hello, I'm Paul and I've come to the realization that me and alcohol no longer get along. When I start drinking, I cannot stop, despite how many times I tell myself I'm only going out for just a couple. I've lost that battle 99 out of 100 times. I've tried to set boundaries on my drinking like never drink alone, and not before 5pm but several times found myself drinking alone well before 5pm. When I'm not drinking, I feel fidgety, contentious and anxious which eventually leads me back to the bottle. After grappling with alcohol for over a decade and a summer from hell in 2014, I decided on September 7th 2014, I HAVE to stop drinking. The Recovery Elevator Podcast is a medium to help keep me sober in addition to helping others struggling with alcohol quit drinking and maintain a healthy recovery. Don't make the same mistakes I did in early recovery. Hear from guests who are successfully navigating early sobriety. It won't be easy, but you can do this.
Episódios
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012: Why today is the best day to start your sobriety and quit drinking alcohol
11/05/2015 Duração: 38minAlcoholism is a progressive disease and Paul, with 34 years of sobriety explains how he has made it this long with out a drink. Below are the key points Paul discusses. Drinking destroys the intelligence After 34 years is still taking it one day at a time Drinking destroys in this order: Spiritual, Mind then body. Healing is in reverse order This disease is beautiful (the solution, continuing to be of service to the community and others) ISM – incredibly short memory Wants to be reminded on a daily basis that is doesn’t get any better Gets gooder and gooder and gooder Sick and tired of being sick and tired
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011: 7 characteristics of a dry drunk and how to avoid this
04/05/2015 Duração: 50minMoira has 9 months of sobriety, has lost 55 pounds and explains how her life is so much better without alcohol. A dry drunk is someone who: 1. Has made no emotional or behavioral changes. 2. Someone who simply doesn't drink and does not work a programs or invest time into their recovery 7 Characteristics of a Dry Drunk: 1. Selfish a. Alcoholics are all extremely selfish and we think we are in total control at all times. We think we have beat the system 2. My Way or the Highway – Tom Cochrane "Life is a highway" a. Spontaneous decisions with only one person in mind 3. The Blah…… a. Things are getting boring. You’ve quit drinking, you're riding the pink cloud, but soon things start to get mundane and boring 4. We start to forget a. The magic of how our brains are wired to forget the past 5. Sunsets aren’t quite as magnificent a. Interesting things in life have lost their allure 6. Negativity a. A continuous trend in n
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010: Shred the shame of being an alcoholic and be proud of your decision to quit drinking alcohol
27/04/2015 Duração: 33minMaggie who has 14 days of sobriety in her early recovery explains how she made it this far and what gave her the motivation to stop drinking alcohol. Here are some of the resources discussed in Episode 10 AA on Air Wellington Hello Sunday Morning Foundations Recovery Network And of course, the battle with the iPhone
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009: 6 ways to take action in sobriety before really taking action in recovery
20/04/2015 Duração: 36minIn this episode, I interview Tom, who has 4 more days of sobriety than myself, and I hope that never changes! Tom you are officially my new accountability partner. In this episode I discuss 6 ways you can take action before really taking action. 1. Wake up - set a routine 2. Pray, say something positive to yourself and meditate 3. Make healthy meals 4. Clean - organize the space you live in 5. Exercise - walk, jog, run, stretch 6. Get busy - keep your mind off alcohol with healthy time consuming tasks DIY Pete has a great website that walks viewers through building great projects STEP BY STEP. This is a great resource and healthy activity in early sobriety!
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008: Nate, who has 5 years sobriety and is about to become a father, shares his amazing journey
13/04/2015 Duração: 36minPaul climbed Machu Picchu in 2014 while sobering up and the trek mentally and physically kicked my butt. In 2015, he dominated the trek becuase sobriety was with my every step of the way. In this Episode Paul talks about speaking to the girls in the Peruvian Promises program, which is part of the non profit Peruvian Hearts about the topic of alcoholism. Although none of the girls in the orphanages and the Peruvian Promise program are alcoholics, several of their parents are. Portions of the donations submitted through the website and mobile app will be given to the Peruvian Hearts program in addition Paul will be organizing a trip in 2016 to the volunteer again. Paul speaking to the girls of the Peruvian Promise program Paul and Nate hitch hiking in El Salvador in sobriety! You can tell it's a little warm at the time this photo was taken!
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007: I could not stop drinking alcohol while in route to Cusco, Peru where I was slated to be a chaperone
06/04/2015 Duração: 41minI was headed to Cusco, Peru as a chaperone for a group of highschool students around this same time last year, and when I started drinking on the first flight I kept drinking all night and up until moments before meeting the students. It was insane, which is exactly what this disease is.
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006: Alcohol is the most dangerous drug in the world
30/03/2015 Duração: 25minAlcohol is the most dangerous drug in the world and you probably don’t even realize it. David Nutt, psychiatrist at imperial college in the UK and former Chairman of the UK advisory council on drugs. - Kills 3 million people worldwide - Was fired for suggesting alcohol was most dangerous drug - In the USA alcohol is responsible for 1/3 of all traffic fatalities - With homicides ½ were intoxicated and 2/3 of domestic violence victims - You’re likely to be a victim is doubled as well Harm score from - Measures drugs on a score of 16 (9 measure harm to individual user and 7 measure societal factors) - Heroine, crack, and Meth are more dangerous when only individual factors, but even so, alcohol is the 4th. - Tobacco is the 7th most harmful drug. 9/10 people can handle alcohol, but 0/10 people can smoke. QUIT SMOKING NOW - Important to not confuse legality with dangerousness. The reasons some drugs are legal are mainly cultural and political. - Marijuana is the gateway drug? Nope.
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005: You've got to be kidding me, he's an alcoholic also?
23/03/2015 Duração: 46minWhen I found out one of my brother's best friends is an alcoholic I was blown away; an a little upset that we hadn't connected years before so we could have been working together. Here are some of the resources that Elliot likes. Joe and Charlie Rich Roll Sandy Beach Like Elliot mentioned, if you would like to get in touch with Elliot, email [email protected] and we will put you in touch with him.
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004: Alcohol has cost me $155,052 and that's a low estimate.
16/03/2015 Duração: 36minIt's so depressing to imagine the amount of money wasted on alcohol. Celebration · Ashamed, didn’t want to tell anyone. 185 days of sobriety. Accountability · Goals The research is conclusive. Dr. Gail Matthews, a psychology professor at Dominican University in California, did a study on goal-setting with 267 participants. She found that you are 42 percent more likely to achieve your goals just by writing them down. Goal: Quit drinking. Must have a date, a plan, details, etc.
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003: Your alcohol addiction is lurking nearby and it is getting stronger
09/03/2015 Duração: 32minPaul sums up his summer of 2014 and drinking career with one dream explaining why he decided his elevator had gone down far enough. Points to discuss during Podcast -It works! It's keeping me sober. Talk about every Monday at 6am goal and how someone reached out. Fear of creating podcasts is no one will listen, mine is that people will actually listen. Dream Peace, Calm, unity, free Gary Jules - Mad World Dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had which describes how Paul felt in the summer of 2014. Repeating statements, words etc. Broken Record. Are you not listening to your own podcasts? Addiction doing laps on ten-speed bike Addiction can dunk a basketball Doing pull-ups Burpees Taking a break, then buying performance enhancing drugs Picture of my beautiful view while podcasting
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002: Sobriety is located outside of your comfort zone
24/02/2015 Duração: 37minThe only way you're going to be able to quit drinking is to get outside of your comfort zone. If you are not willing to do this, then your chances of getting sober are bleak. Show Notes for Episode 2: What is covered · Why you are a lucky one · Myths debunked · Can I ever drink again? · Comfort Zone · Success Rates · Answer to quit drinking This is the link to where I found the percentages of alcoholics
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001: Do you have a drinking problem
22/02/2015 Duração: 40minAnswering this question is easier than you might think........
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000: I'm an alcoholic
12/02/2015 Duração: 09minPaul discusses his struggles with alcohol and his experiences in early recovery. Test Content