Sports Motivation Podcast By I'm Not You | Mindset | Strategies | Habits | Psychology | Athlete Development | Host Niyi Sobo

In this classic interview with two legends, Kobe Bryant and Kendrick Lamar, Kobe shows what the evolution to greatness really looks like. It's a reality that most run from, but Kobe is all for it. #Bars

Now more than ever, there is an abundance of "aspiring" pro athletes and "Millionaire" business leaders. And it's getting harder and harder to tell who is for real and who is faking it all.   In this episode, I detail the signs that I have witnessed from athletes and entrepreneurs that show me that they are kidding themselves - and the closest thing they will get to a professional, is when they sit court side at a laker game.   Don't let this be you. The first step is awareness, so take notes, and listen at the end for your solution to this problem.   Time Stamps: (1:52) Were you raised with high-standards? (3:19) The football come-up (6:42) "Pancakes" (8:45) It's not easy to get to the pros (10:52) I can easily spot the "pretenders" (12:19) Signs of a phony, Pt. 1: You think you're really good. (13:20) Signs of a phony, Pt. 2: You don't approach nutrition without deliberation. (14:32) Signs of a phony, Pt. 3: Your problems are always external. (15:40) Signs of a phony, Pt. 4: You have pro-goals, but hold con

How do you bounce back stronger after a loss, a tough break, or a set of circumstances you didn't ask for?   Most never recover, which is exactly why they stay stuck. Today, I show you the stages of recovery, and how to come back stronger than ever.   Time Stamps: (1:22) The meaning behind today's episode (5:15) Step 1: Quickly identify the roots of your failure (11:41) Step 2: Create practical plans for improvement (13:00) Clip: Kobe on bouncing back (13:39) Step 3: Set new goals and standards immediately (15:07) Step 4: Define success (results) in great detail (16:24) Step 5: Define the process in great detail + add power moves (18:19) Don't talk... DO. (22:05) Step 6: Bulletproof all of your environments (26:38) Now let's move.   Imnotyou.com/KI

Have you ever heard of a quote, and wanted to make a poster out of it so you could see it at the same time?   What happens when you hear new quotes everyday?   In this episode I show you how I solved the dilemma of wanting to remind myself of the powerful bars, without making the walls of my home look like a power line pole on the streets of downtown Los Angeles.   #UpOnGame

Consistency is everything... but that statement doesn't feel as good when things aren't going your way.   Today, we hear a powerful bar from one of the best rappers out (Dave East), about what will happen if you just "stay down", and don't give up.   #BARS

Most people think "aha-moments" (or moments of clarity) are passive, coincidental, or random.   In this episode, I break down how to create these moments of clarity, how to stay clear-headed, and motivated (with a sense of urgency). It's up to you to follow through.   Time Stamps: (1:22) When was the last time you had an "Aha-moment"? (3:41) The meaning of an "Aha-moment" (4:29) Think constantly about what you want (6:22) Talk out loud about what you want (9:26) Planning in detail, what you want (10:32) Clip: Nipsey Hussle on plans, doubts and confidence (12:17) Validation from others (13:22) Validation from OG's (15:09) Pay attention to the small wins along the way (15:38) The VISION you want for your LIFE...   Imnotyou.com/KI

There isn't a person breathing who doesn't care about others' opinions. Everyone deeply craves to be accepted. You and I struggle to find the balance between having people like you, and accomplishing the results.   This episode is all about how to master that fear of criticism that is so innate to who we are... and how to begin to channel it towards growth, motivation and inspiration.   Time Stamps: (1:22) This episode is for you if... (2:24) Michael Jordan's "The Last Dance" ESPN documentary (3:21) MJ clip: "If you don't wanna play that way... don't play that way" (5:50) Reflecting on a past episode: "For the women: How to become fearless, fierce, and confident" (9:05) Preparation: Understand and embrace your fear (11:46) Preparation: Take inventory of your desire (14:36) Preparation: Make the firm decision to be great (15:41) Step 1: Understand what it takes to master your craft. (18:03) Step 2: RUTHLESS accountability systems. (27:33) Step 3: Establish a relentless focus on your audience. (29:44) Kanye cl

We are all faced with hard decisions... what should we do? How should we choose? What must be sacrificed? These decisions ultimately lead to our results, so making the "wrong" decision must be avoided. But HOW? In this episode, I break down the criteria you should use for making tough decisions.    Imnotyou.com/KI

Sean Fagan is Professional Muay Thai Fighter and champion, and also an Entrepreneur, Podcaster and founder of Muay Thai Guy.   In this episodes, he breaks down his simple and profound philosophy on fear, growth and the championship fighter's mentality.   Time Stamps: (1:22) Welcome Sean Fagan! (2:08) Reflecting on Sean's journey, starting back from high school (8:20) How Sean used fear as a signal // A deeper dive into his mindset (10:18) The Poker-hand metaphor (12:11) Balancing athletics with entrepreneurship (15:52) Using external pressure as fuel to give it your all (18:08) Sean's keys: Clarity, Environment, and Time Mastery (22:11) Morning mastery and verbal therapy (27:00) Mental vs. Physical (34:31) "Failure is a conscious decision" (37:08) Staying aligned with your spouse (40:00) Sean's two learning philosophies (43:29) How to connect with Sean (44:48) A Muay Thai story: The missing mouthguard (46:13) Books mentioned in this episode (48:15) Sean's next plans   Visit Sean's website: muaythaiguy.com  

Under pressure, most people wish it were different. Some stay calm. And then there are the Killas....they find a way to be more reckless, more aggressive and even more dominant under the pressure.   This is not a gift. It is a choice. In "Hagakure" this mindset is brilliantly stated. and in this episode I break down this mindset from the classic book. #BARS   Imnotyou.com/bookclub

Most "leaders" spend lots of time complaining about their staff, teammates, instead of pointing those same strict standards on themselves.   In Dan Kennedy's book "No B.S. Ruthless Management of people and profits", he gives leaders a heavy dose of reality. #BARS   Imnotyou.com/bookclub

Sam Demma is an alumni of the Top 35 under 35 global change-maker award, the founder of the high performing student, and a 20-year-old keynote speaker. He has delivered two TEDx Talks, and He is the youngest member of CAPS – Canadian Association of Professional Speakers.   In this interview, he shares his powerful story that includes a tragic ending to his promising soccer career, dropping out of university to pursue his new dream, to speaking on stage in front of thousands and releasing his brand new "High Performing Student" course.   Time Stamps: (1:22) Welcome Sam! (3:23) Sam's incredible journey (10:58) Ownership: Sam's foundation of hard work-ethic (13:18) Small, consistent actions // Painful emotions: Impatience, uncertainty & imposter syndrome (18:21) Knocking the "Imposter Syndrome" (22:22) Sam's athlete background: How to upgrade your mindset (24:26) How to raise your standards (27:58) Advice for those who are afraid of pressure (29:58) How to move on from major setbacks (33:46) Sam's tactical

I notice there are a lot of so-called "Lions" in the jungle, who look more like helpless deer about to get snatched up out here in the jungle....   If that's you, today is for you. No more being weak and helpless. Now is the time to take back control and be the Killa that you are.   Listen to this episode to get your mind right, and share it with someone who needs it.   #GetYaMindRight

Today I introduce you to a rising star, both in his sport and on the microphone. Ivory Frimpong is a collegiate athlete, aspiring pro football player as well as host of his own podcast and leader of a new movement. The movement is called "Think Gold", and it's all about inspiring and teaching this young generation of ambitious youth to value mindset and be leaders.   I had the privilege of being on his show, and this is part 2 of the interview. Search for Ivory's "Think Gold" podcast to check out part 1, and don't forget to subscribe to his podcast.   #UpOnGame

In any industry, sport, or business, there are always invisible standards, rules and values. And what's true is that very often these values are not the same as your own.   What we usually see is people who make it to a level of success, yet end up sacrificing what they really want and who they really are. They allow themselves to be a victim of their environment.   Jay Electronica is not one of those people, and he explains how and why, on his new album "A Written Testimony". #Bars

In this episode, I share with you an exclusive live masterclass I hosted on Zoom (on April 28th), detailing my philosophy on mental toughness, and how to practically build more of it. This is especially crucial at a time like this (dealing with Coronavirus, COVID-19), when it is most needed.   It's a long episode, but stick with it... and if you are interested in joining me on the next live masterclass, go to Imnotyou.com/masterclass to secure your spot.   If you think you're ready for the Killer Instinct program, go to Imnotyou.com/KI and sign up.

You're a leader, but its hard to get those who you serve to really buy-in and get down with the plan. It can be frustrating, but in this episode I break down some keys that I have learned as a leader, that you can apply to your teams, organizations, and family.    Time Stamps: (1:56) When I learn, I teach (3:24) Cliches are low-key true... (4:32) Madden: Me vs. My Son (5:58) Detach your SELF from EMOTION (7:49) Diagnosis of feelings (8:56) "Organisms" (12:23) Don't let emotions overrule your judgment   Imnotyou.com/KI

In this episode, I share the very framework of the meeting that my wife and I have every week. It serves the purpose of clarifying our goals and objectives, unifying our energy, and enlisting the support of one another.   Begin implementing this framework asap if you want to align with your spouse on an entirely different level, and take your relationship to new heights. #UpOnGame   [email protected]

As hungry and motivated as you think you are, those around you can be uninspiring, lazy and not willing to attack. This is most likely frustrating to you - it will, and can, cause you to spend too much time complaining and whining about how nobody is as hungry as you.   In Dave East's new song 'Handsome", he explains a different philosophy. The mindset of going out to get it, by yourself, regardless of who's with you. Take a listen. #BARS

Waking up early sounds simple enough, but for anyone who has tried to make a habit of getting up when it's dark outside, it's much easier said than done.   In this episode, I break down the mindset and philosophy behind the early riser, as well as the practical approach to developing a habit that really sticks.   Time Stamps: (1:22) What today’s episode is all about (3:35) Misconceptions about early risers (6:00) Step 1: Your morning “equation” (7:18) Your enemy = mental softness (8:33) Physical and mental factors that will affect your sleep (11:32) Check your sources (15:59) Consider what your goal is (16:35) Valuing sleep, more than other things that are just as important (18:30) KEY: Decide that you MUST get up early (20:05) KEY: Through failures, keep holding the standard (22:09) KEY: Once it’s a habit, double down (23:06) Practical tips to help you get up early (26:16) Remember your reasons for getting up early. To sign up for Killer Instinct: Imnotyou.com/KI