The New Man

Are you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views? And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality? Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest. In this interview: Tripp’s history in the dark underbelly of politics Why we’re far more similar than different Why some actively want to “divide and conquer” How to tell when we’re being manipulated Ways we can drop the drama and focus on solutions instead You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book

A quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit one of Mark Manson’s interviews on The New Man Podcast. Do you ever feel like you must be living your life the wrong way? Do you compare yourself to others and then feel like shit because you believe they have something you don’t? And is it possible that your frustration may be rooted in a hidden belief that you’re entitled to more than you’re getting? Mark Manson wrote a book called The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. He’s here to tell us why many believe being average is a failure and why we’d be better off if we weren’t so focused on being so special. In this interview: What the title of his book really means “Don’t be special. Don’t be unique.” Do you have bad values that are driving you nuts? Why striving for a positive experience creates a negative experience Plus: Why learning how to accept negative experiences is the path to what you truly want Using personal development to escape negativity and vulnerability “If life is hard then I must be doing it wrong” How to tell if you’re entit

What’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive? Today we’re going to discuss how to rebuild our inner fire and why too much of a good thing is not a good thing. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit one of Kamal Ravikant’s classic interviews on The New Man Podcast. Can you actually learn how to build confidence and get in the zone where good fortune seems to flow your way? Is being happy or content for losers? And are you creating what you really want or are you just avoiding failure? “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” author and renaissance man Kamal Ravikant is here to discuss the dangers of being driven by fear plus a simple practice to build confidence and bounce back after a challenge. In this interview: How is fulfillment different than being happy? How to build confidence Why things just seem to go your way when you're not really trying Plus: The difference between self-love and narcissism The danger of a "finish line" mentality When failure is okay How to tell if you're being driven by a fear of failure You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entre

What if life and work could be less draining? Do you ever catch yourself taking things too seriously? And what if you didn’t depend on fear or scarcity for motivation? Coach, speaker, and author Jason Goldberg is here to discuss the dangers of taking ourselves too seriously. We dive into what life could look like if we weren’t afraid of negative emotions, the real power that comes from putting fear into perspective, and why true peace of mind comes from remembering that we can take a punch. In this interview: The importance of play and humor How being serious kills our creativity Goofiness vs enthusiasm Dealing with anxiety, stress, and depression “Am I always going to feel this way?” Plus: Remembering that we’ll eventually be okay “A clear calm mind knows exactly what to do next” — Byron Katie The myth of “burning the boats” What if you weren’t afraid of your feelings? How do you impact others in a positive way? Referenced in this interview: The problem with Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Brian J

We revisit Ryan Holiday’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. Do you think some folks are just magically able to bounce back from adversity or did they just practice something you can learn, too? Do you think other people are successful because they’ve figured out a way to avoid problems? And what can you do the next time life serves you up an unexpected challenge? Ryan Holiday is here to discuss how you can turn adversity into advantage and why the obstacle is the way. In this interview: -How getting clear about what you can and cannot control gives you power -Why chasing perfection is paralyzing you -Why anyone can learn to face problems and move through obstacles Plus: -Why it’s time to stop avoiding the things that scare you -How the stories you tell yourself determine what’s going to happen -Why true power and bravery may not appear the way you think it should You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — includ

How would a scientist approach getting stronger and leaner? Is cardio getting in the way of your fat loss goals? And do we really need things to be a struggle in order to prove that we’re smart, special, or strong? Dr. John Jaquish is a scientist, inventor, and author of “Weight Lifting is a Waste of Time: So is Cardio, and There’s a Better Way to Have the Body You Want.” He’s very outspoken about how the fitness industry is a failure, and he believes he has the scientific data to back up his claims. He invented the X3 home fitness product which can fit in a bag. He claims that, along with an unconventional diet, by using this thing for only 10 minutes a day you can have the body of someone who spends hours in the gym every week. Full disclosure: I don’t own the X3 product at this time, and I was not compensated in any way for conducting this interview. In this interview: Why is weight lifting a waste of time from scientific perspective? How does cardio keep you fat? Why “no pain, no gain” is outdated

We revisit Tim Ferriss’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. In this conversation, the 4-Hour Workweek and 4-Hour Body author discusses how to learn anything quickly, dealing with fear and failure, how to gain confidence, and the mindset for success. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Did you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim? Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well? And what life lesson can we learn from cheesy 80’s action movies? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we talk about the desire to quit, the magical, hollywood montage, and my covert black ops swimming lesson. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Should we give up or stick it out? Learning something vs doing something well Old school “tough love” swimming lessons Why we bail when we’re in the learning phase How to embrace the parts the make others quit You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will mak

Do you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you? What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do? And why do kids suck? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we take a quick look into the myth of motivation, the best way to find confidence and clarity, and why it’s important to face the fact that we all suck from time to time. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you waiting to feel passionate or confident before you make a change? How to take action even if you’re not motivated How clarity can be a myth The danger of researching or gathering information How to create clarity and certainty Plus: Why do kids suck? Success looks like failure in the middle Did you stop learning when you finished school? How to embrace the learning process Are you going to play defense for the rest of your life? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses

Do you believe you have commitment issues? Why do we sabotage ourselves? And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking meaningful action today? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, I’m going to share the reasons why we hit the brakes when we’re trying to make a positive change, and we’ll also begin to understand the invisible force of resistance so that it doesn’t keep us stuck. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Why won’t a man commit? What keeps someone from committing? Why do we get stuck or fail at making a change? Why do we sabotage ourselves? What drives analysis paralysis, excuses, and resistance Plus: How can we learn to identify our resistance so that we don’t let it hold us back? Are you convinced something terrible might happen if you were to make a big change? What if the fear holding you back isn’t so bad after all? How can we get out of analysis paralysis and into action today?

JP Bouvet is a world class drummer that has lived through one of my recurring nightmares — twice. In this talk we explore our fear of face planting in front of others, the importance of meaning in our work, and why he’s chosen to redefine himself professionally. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confronting our fear of rejection. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misconceptions about meditation, and the trap of trying to outrun what makes us uncomfortable. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

What if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back? Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now? And how could we quickly shift into a perspective that challenges us to play big? Today we’re going to zoom out and see our problems and lives from a perspective we rarely take. In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we’ll tap into a universal view to minimize fear in order to access greater freedom and power. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: What is freedom? What would life be like without proving and defending? The fear of failure Why we’re not a big deal — and we never will be Learning how to play big even though we are very small You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.c

Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today we discuss what it was like to have such a unique career, how he ended up feeling lost, and how he found his way again after learning how to help others. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you get pissed off when someone says something that goes against your values? Do you believe that negotiation is all about winning and getting the best of the other guy? And is calling someone out the best way to make positive change? Kwame Christian is the Director of the American Negotiation Institute which means he knows a thing or two about resolving conflicts and finding solutions. Today he’s going to share some basic tips that will help us navigate challenges online, at home, at work, and in our neighborhood. In this interview: How to approach difficult conversations “We’re always negotiating.” Why most conversations are doomed to fail The 3 main goals of any negotiation Why negotiations are 90% ego or emotionally driven Plus: Calling out vs calling in Why “calling out” typically backfires Virtue signaling and performing instead of persuading What to do if you’re actually trying to inspire change What’s the number one goal of power? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same minds

Does it seem scary to talk about race? How is racial tension similar to an uncomfortable Thanksgiving dinner? And what if the thing that would make a difference is much closer than we could imagine? Recently I learned a valuable lesson: that I could actually talk to my black friends about their experiences instead of making assumptions and relying on the media or some idealogical group to tell me what to say, think, or do. Having these individual conversations has been revelatory for many reasons — one of which was realizing again how much simply being curious and paying attention could have a huge impact. I learned that it was safe to ask questions and to simply listen. That I wouldn’t be attacked because I was white or if I didn’t get it politically correct. One of the conversations that cracked my world open was with my friend, Mark Palmer. He’s an author and corporate leadership consultant, and even though we’ve known each other for many years, I’ve never asked him about his experience as a black ma

Have you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up? Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong? And how does fear block our ability to be more energized, creative, and bold? Today, we’re going to hear another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this excerpt you’ll hear how I found myself in a cinematic coffee shop shootout and why I almost blew up my marriage before it ever got off the ground. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: How our fear of screwing things up tends to screw things up. What kills our ability to be bold, playful, and creative How I survived a direct hit from a soy vegan latte with 3% dick sprinkles How my wife, Alyson saved our future marriage by humiliating me You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is