The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast features one badass polyamorous sex-positive chick. My dear friend Emily and I recorded this while I was visiting her in Vancouver. Once I passed through Canadian customs (not easy!), we discussed how her dating life has evolved from Internet boyfriends to polyamory cuckholding! You're all gonna love her. Plus, some exciting news that involves a different Emily! In a little town in Saskatchewan, Canada, a virgin Emily developed a long-distance Internet boyfriend in Kansas. My guest tells me the story about how she got up the courage to fly to a different country to meet him in person circa 2001. Did she get catfished? Was he fake? Was it true love? Find out! Plus, listen to me name as many Canadian provinces as I can. It's kind of adorable/impressive. Emily Lindin created The UnSlut Project to combat sexual bullying and slut-shaming. As you all know, I'm a big fan of her work (and her shirts). I am

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Get Kenneth Play's book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence! Sex tips are all the rage. Everyone wants to know how to have better sex and please their partner. Kenneth Play is a sex hacker. He has tips to make you better at sex and more efficient. We had a fascinating discussion about sex tips, manhood, casual sex and Miley Cyrus. Kenneth Play's sex advice starts with comfort. "The most important part of any sexual experience is about creating a safe space," said the sex hacker. If someone isn't comfortable, it's not going to be fun! We talked about how to create safe spaces in the bedroom. We also discuss manhood and how to have a lot of hot sex without being a douche. Casual sex is very popular amongst the socio-sexual orientation unrestricted folks. Or simply: sluts. This slutty fella and I discussed why casual sex is so important for him. He tells us that society has

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week is the follow-up episode to last week's swinging show with Alex! Her husband Adam joins us for a threeway episode talking about their life as a sexy, swinging couple. These two are adorably in love and it makes me want to vomit. This is a can't-miss episode of The Manwhore Podcast! (I mean, you can miss it and live, but why would you want to?) After being together for the better part of two decades, Alex and Adam are an incredibly in-sync couple. Adam joins the podcast and discusses how their swinger relationship came to be. The married pair shares how communication, check-ins and love allow them to participate in threesomes and gangbangs and swinger parties. Nonmonogamy doesn't mean you don't get jealous and these two love birds hash it out like adults. "At the end of the day, I'm going home with him and he's going home with me," says Alex. The first time I met Alex and Adam was at a gangbang where something went awry. One bad app

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is the first episode of an epic two-part series about marriage, love and lots of group sex! Through a serendipitous series of events, Alex reemerged into my life earlier this summer when her husband emailed me asking if I'd like to have sex with her again. We discuss her swinger lifestyle with her husband, group sex and feeling young in her long marriage. What's the magic number for a gangbang? Well, we now know that 13 dicks is way too many! "It's like a soccer team!" Alex and I discuss the finer points of group sex, including why having a sex ratio that's heavily male is beneficial to a party. I recall my first-ever Craigslist bukkake. Men and women: don't be creepy on the Internet. It's fine to say, "I want your dick." But, like, also say your name and maybe what your favorite season of Boy Meets World is. Alex and I both share the same fantasy of being paid for sex. Listen to us discuss our whore fantasies. She also shares how her

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We're getting naked (again) on The Manwhore Podcast! Young Naturists of America co-founder Felicity Jones is on the podcast talking about getting naked and body positivity. And yes, men, she answers that "What if?" question you're already thinking. "It's not the boner that's the problem. It's what you do with it!" Felicity Jones was raised in New Jersey stripping down with her family at the Rock Lodge Club. Raised nudist, being naked feels natural for Felicity. However, it's not considered "normal" so she had to keep it a secret (and keep her clothes on) during playdates! Plus, hear about how this fueled her views on body positivity! Felicity advocates for topless equality: #FreeTheNipple! Young Naturistis of America also encourages social nudity "to promote acceptance." However, there is a concern that naked women walking the streets of urban cities would promote even more catcalling. Felicity shares how it makes her feel when men post crud

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Betty Dodson is the infamous Mother of Masturbation. She's the Victor of Vulvas, the Master of Manual Labor, the Sultan of Sexuality, the Captain of Clitorises and the Leader of Labia: Betty Dodson. This 86-year-old feminist icon has been teaching women how to obtain orgasms since the 70s! Not without her controversies with second wave feminists, she has remained a leader in the sexual revolution. It was a damned delight having her on The Manwhore Podcast! Dodson first began teaching her bodysex workshops in the 1970s after attending sex parties and noticing that all of the women were faking their orgasms. So she took it upon herself to teach them how to c*m. "Masturbation is the foundation for all human sexual activity." The octogenarian talks about her own sexual awakening after a lackluster marriage and shares how even she still masturbates in her old age. Plus, she just cannot stop gushing about sex with younger men! "Incest is best," Do

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It's that time of the month again. We're getting messy with another comedian: Alison Klemp! This hilarious New York comedian and actress has some wild stories to share on The Manwhore Podcast. From lying to men on the Internet to her issues with feminism extremists, Alison proved to be a phenomenal guest and a talent you should be watching!  Alison never hides that she's a feminist. But like me, she takes issue with some of the more absurd and extremist factions of feminism. We discuss the damage that infighting can have on a movement. I modeled for New York Body Painting Day over the weekend and it was awesome! Andy Golub's body painting event was a beautiful demonstration of body positivity and I was thrilled to have been a part of it. Public nudity was another important part of the festivities, as it challenged the laws on female toplessness in this country. It was a phenomenal experience. Plus, it gives a lot of you fanwhores the opportu

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Welcome back, fanwhores! Ashley is on the show this week's Manwhore Podcast! Four years after lying naked in bed together, we reconnect with our clothes on. We catch up with each other, including how to react when you meet the man who's already f*cked your man! Ashley and I go over first date etiquette. Her views on gender norms are a bit antiquated. Splitting the check "is just weird" to Ashley but I think it's werid for someone to assume their meal is paid for by a stranger. But if you need a cheap date we both highly recommend McSorley's! Horror movies used to mean striped sweaters and hockey masks. The modern day scary movie for men are now ultimate tales of female revenge. Gone Girl and Teeth are great movies to petrify your boyfriend into behaving well! Also, one nervous listener writes in wondering if a woman he met at an art show is interested in him. I don't know if it's the Salon.com piece, my grandmother passing or residuals from

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jenny Kutner ambushed me in her Salon.com piece and Jess returns to the podcast tamed from her wild ways. If you remember, Jess was one of my first episodes back in the day and the inspiration for one of the infamous Manwhore Podcast condoms! We catch up about her stable of fellas, going to weddings and settling down. Jenny Kutner interviewed me for Salon.com, something I was thrilled about and excited to share with the fanwhores. However, the article is not at all what I expected. Kutner and I had a very pleasant two-hour conversation and through some liberal editing and cherry picking she forced an agenda about male privilege into a piece that was supposed to be about my podcast. So you can hear my thoughts on this disappointing bit of news on this week's episode. Jess is back and she is taken! Hear about how this slutty lady finally got tied down. We talk about how she met her boyfriend and how she ended things with her f*ck buddies.

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sex education expert Kate McCombs is on the podcast this week. I am so excited to share her with you all! I admit to her that being a sex educator is my not-so-secret dream day job. Kate and I talk about being sex geeks, where we learned the birds and the bees, and common tropes in sexual misinformation. It's seriously one of my new favorite Manwhore Podcasts! Kate McCombs is a master of sex! No, seriously. She has a Master's degree. She describes how she got started teaching sex ed on the jungle gym when she was 10! If you've ever wanted to be a sex educator, you should listen up about how she went from a peer educator in college to running her own sexual communication workshops around the country. Plus, are you a sex geek? Then you should be a part of the Sex Geekdom! Same-sex marriage is finally legal nationwide! Friday was a historic day for our nation and LGBT rights. The landmark Supreme Court ruling in the case of Obergefell vs. H

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian and former sex worker Kaytlin Bailey is this week's special guest on The Manwhore Podcast! Kaytlin was a teenaged escort and is now a hilarious stand-up comic and self-proclaimed c*nt. This episode features two comedians talking about sex work and gender in the funniest way possible! Kaytlin Bailey made enough money doing sex work that at 17 she opened a Roth IRA! Her and I share the same fetish of being paid for sex. She has just gotten to live her fantasy way more times than I have. We discuss how a whore fantasy turned into a job. Plus, am I allowed to "appropriate" the word whore by calling myself a manwhore? (duh, of course) Hear Kaytlin's reasons for faking orgasms on this week's episode. Of course, faking orgasms would not be necessary if we lived in a society where a man's masculinity wasn't so caught up in him "giving" a woman an orgasm. We've become so goal-oriented that we forgot that sex is about feeling good during your

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We're talking BDSM impact play and polyamory on this week's Manwhore Podcast with Anastasia. My kinky friend Anastasia is a Twitter hook-up that turned into a friendship where we share the finer parts of our sexual exploits. It's a kinky, sexy, loving poly episode! The hardest part about polyamory isn't jealousy or hurt feelings. It's scheduling! Anastasia and I discuss #polyproblems. I attempt to diagram her poly family of relationships. It's not very easy. We also learn about her polyamorous origins with her current long-distance primary partner. We're learning all about impact play and BDSM this week. Anastasia talks about whipping, flogging, hitting, caning and being tied down. "Your kink is not my kink—and it's okay." Just remember that consent is key! How do you find your sex toys? Listen to my guest's story about buying her first pair of handcuffs at a Ren Faire! Support The Manwhore Podcast and get awesome rewards! Make a pledge on

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida No matter how hard we tried, Andrea Allan and I could not seem to have sex with each other. This week's episode is with my friend and fellow comedian Andrea Allan, an "off-putting babe" who likes rough sex and funny men. Hear the story of two people wanting to bang each other who just…couldn't. Comedian Andrea Allan has dated—f*cked— a lot of stand-up comedians. We discuss the common question amongst the comedy community: should comics date other comics? Even if you do, could you f*ck a bad comic? Comedian sex has the same major rule as stand-up comedy: Always Be Funny. Andrea likes rough sex that sounds like a homicide. Hear about the time her roommate had to decide to either c*ckblock Andrea or potentially let her be murdered. The fellow podcaster is so intense in bed—not bad, just intense—that she scared my d*ck into submission. How should a woman react to a guy's sexual dysfunction? Listen to a hilarious story about a prank I pulled inv

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Burlesque veteran Peekaboo Pointe joins me on this week's Manwhore Podcast to talk about dancing, dating and getting naked. Peekaboo has a storied past as rich as the history of burlesque itself! I enjoyed talking to the "Lazy Stripper" about this fun, sexy art form and getting to know what it's like being, well, Peekaboo! Peekaboo Pointe is "The Fastest Tassle Twirler from East to West"! With well over ten years of experience under her belt, Peek has been around since the early days of New York City's burlesque revival. She tells me about how she transitioned from modern dance to stripping down to pasties. "Can't we all just get naked and make some art?!" Thank you so much to everyone who emailed, tweeted and shouted their kind words after hearing last week's break-up pre-intro. It means so much to me to have such amazing strangers who care about me. From the bottom of my heart, I love you all. Except Jim. Peekaboo schooled me on the histo

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian Mike Cannon makes a special appearance on The Manwhore Podcast this week. Holy sh*t! What didn't we talk about?! Love. Dating. Craigslist. Hairy assh*les. Mike and I covered it all! We start this week's episode off on a super sad note. I had a rough weekend and I explain why. Don't worry: the show gets better when I start talking about rimjobs. Congratulations to Ireland for proving that even Catholics can be loving human beings! The Republic of Ireland voted to legalize same-sex marriages in their country by public referendum. How did the f*cking Catholics beat us to marriage equality?! It's probably responsible to check-in about your sexuality once in awhile and make sure you're not missing out on something that you want. Right? No? We enter that heteroman world of, "Well if you were gay…" I also blow his mind when I tell him about my naked podcast episodes. We discuss his decades-long relationship and how they manage the very d

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Crystal was my annual NYU tradition. We met Welcome Week during our freshman year at New York University and made it a point to hook-up each year. Lots of not-sex with Crystal back then. Now she's in an adorable long-term long distance relationship. I'm still sad and alone. NYU was a casual sex fest for me. Crystal shared a similar amount of adventures, including a pair of hot threesomes! Despite our busy dance cards, we somehow made time for getting naked with each other once a year. But we have no idea how it started! How do you think we hooked up? Email your guesses to [email protected]! Manscaping: it's finally come up! One hairy listener wants to know how he can trim up his pubes to his wife's liking. They're both about to enter the swinger scene so he wants a pube 'do that pleases a wide audience. Crystal has been dating her first love for five years. They have recently begun a hopeful long distance relationship. After years toget

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The third and final (?) naked podcast is upon us! Mary completes my first series of naked podcast episodes talking about casual sex, being vanilla and losing her virginity. The dad bod craze makes an appearance in this week's show and one listener wants to know how to be a responsible unicorn. What happens when two Tinder right swipes get naked and talk about sex? Well…sexy things! Mary challenged herself to step outside of her comfort zone and got naked with a total stranger. We discussed how natural the nudity eventually felt. It was pretty cool. The dynamic was different than my previous nude episodes because since she came from Tinder, we both inherently knew we were attracted to each other. Listen to the sexual tension build. The dad bod is in. Hear me discuss my joys and concerns over the latest male body type craze. The dad bod is a guy who isn't entirely in shape but isn't an unhealthy fat guy. It's sort of inbetween. Think Leona

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The Naked Manwhore Podcast takes one gay man and one straight man and strips them of their clothes to get an amazing episode about sex and dating. Whether gay, straight or queer, we can all relate to the topics of lusting for sex, falling in love and navigating the frustrating world of dating. Two nude dudes cover Truvada, Craigslist and romance! Want to check out the books Stephanie got me? What Do Women Want? by Daniel Bergner A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam The Invention of News by Andrew Pettegree On the second installment of my naked podcast series, James and I discuss the finer points of Craigslist and dick size. As James tells us, "I never met a dick I couldn't take." You could be that dick for him, if you're on Scruff! PrEP and Truvada have revolutioninzed safe sex in gay culture. A community of men ravaged by the AIDS epidemic and scared straight into using condoms now have a new tool to protect themselves again

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Naked podcast number one begins with Daniela! A kinky naked lady strips down and bares all with nudity of the body and mind. We're talking about online dating woes, sexual exploration and anal fisting on a sexy new episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This is the first in a short series of nudist podcasts. I believe that we are at our most vulnerable when naked in front of a new person.Combine that with opening up to a total stranger and I think it makes for a very interesting dynamic! So I recruited on Reddit and Tinder to find a few fun and brave souls to strip down with me and chat. Not as weird as we expected, but I still totally got a boner. Daniela has had a rough time with online dating since moving to New York. She shares her bad luck with dating and Tinder horror stories. Plus, she tells me about her newfound relationship with casual sex. I got to see more than Daniela's boobs. I got to see some bruises, the product of some rough sex o

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida How soon is too soon to send a d*ck pic? Lauren hops on the mic for a Tinder School Reunion to talk about showing your penis and the pitfalls of dating. Get that V wet! Two years after their Tinder one-off, Lauren pops by Bushwick to chat with me about her dating style. Recently she's moved off of Tinder and hunts down men at the bar, or "in the wild" as she calls it. Where do people meet in real life these days? I still fantasize about meeting a woman at a bookstore where we reach for the same copy of Gotham and lock eyes as we both think to ourselves, "Wow this book is really f*cking heavy." Lauren remembers Billy being very sweaty. I reveal that I just have a nervous dating tick that makes it seem like I was doing cocaine in the bathroom. Hear about my nervous itch on this week's episode of the podcast! Is Tinder for hooking up? Is it for dating? Lauren and I discuss Tinder's ambiguity problem. It's important for a dating website or a