The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida TotalFratMove.com's Jared Freid tells Manwhore Podcast listeners to "be the Captain." Freid, also known as JTrain, talks about hooking up, dating apps, and confidence on this week's total dudecast. This episode has some stellar advice for all unsure daters. Get in here and listen! Jared Freid is a very funny stand-up comedian who fields sex and dating questions on his very own podcast, The JTrain Podcast! This dude's dude has some excellent words of wisdom for frustrated folks on the dating scene. One of my favorites? "Be okay with a no," he tells people whose happiness is too tied to the outcome. We also talk about the tug o' war between women and comedy. How early is too early to ask for butt stuff? I recount a recent post-date blowjob that seemed to dangle the promise of prostate play in the air. I caught myself wondering if communicating this desire was time-appropriate. If I wasn't so smitten, it'd be a no-brainer. Jared and I both gre

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida My friend Lilly stopped by The Manwhore Podcast to debrief another successful sex party weekend. For all the lovers of sexy stories, this is the episode for you. Hear how one of my Manwhore Podcast condoms got more action than I did one night! Ever have a dude f*ck up your blowjob? Not only do you need consent to touch another person, but I think you should have consent from the person the other person is touching. What do I mean? Listen in! Plus, am I into sex parties for the exhibitionism or for the accessibility to titties? I've never used one of the Manwhore Podcast condoms but I did watch one get used. Lilly and I team up to recount a wild night at the Creek and the Cave after a comedy show. Apparently she was black out drunk so she's just as surprised by most of this story as you are. She also talks about her history with BDSM and foray into being a professional dominatrix. Go be a part of the conversation! Subscribe to /r/manwhorepod

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Speed dating is alive and well! This week I went speed dating on the podcast thanks to OnSpeedDating.com. To make things interesting, I invited back Andrea Allan to critique my dates. This is a one-of-a-kind Manwhore Podcast! As a twentysomething millenial, the term "speed dating" still conjures up that scene from The 40-Year-Old-Virgin. I threw a speed dating event to meet eight single New Yorkers. I discovered the best way to make multiple five-minute dates even more awkward: shove a microphone in their face and broadcast it on the Internet! There was a solid mix of good and bad dates. Now you can hear what a nervous Billy Procida sounds like when he has to impress someone in five minutes or less! I was on some podcasts recently. You should check them out! Keith and the Girl: Ep. 2315 - 47-Hour Marathon: Piss Play The Movie Preview Review Podcast: Ep. 182 Comedian Andrea Allan stopped by to sit down and critique my speed dates. My bitter

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's Manwhore Podcast is with the fantastic Effy Blue! Effy is an alternative relationships coach here in New York City. She and I agree that each relationship should be customized for the people in that relationship. Excellent episode if you're interested in opening your relationship or learning about nonmonogamous lifestyles! "I'm not here to recruit you—I'm just here to help!" Not much butt stuff on this one, but you'll get by! Effy Blue is a "life coach specializing in unconventional relationships." Got #PolyProblems? Call Effy. Threeway miscommunication? Call Effy. Metamour stole your credit cards? Call the cops. Then Effy. We discuss the various relationship models floating out there, from polyamory to monogamy. She also shares her origin story of a failed monagamist-turned-poly person! Look, we all thought Gwyneth Paltrow's "Conscious Uncoupling" fiasco was kinda silly. But Effy thinks they may have been on to something! Ou

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It turns out you can teach an old dog new tricks! Comedian Angela Cobb is the guest on this week's Manwhore Podcast. Angela lost her virginity later in life at the ripe age of 25. She takes us through how she came to be a late bloomer, how it effected her self-image, and the windy circumstances surrounding her deflowering! Angela Cobb has always been a John Lennon-loving tomboy. Growing up in an inescapable friend zone led her to remain a virgin well past college. Then Hurricane Sandy hit and her life—and lady parts—were forever changed! There's nothing wrong with being a late bloomer. Sex is something that should be done on your own terms. Angela doesn't like the phrases that imply virginity being taken or lost. "It's something you give to someone," she shares. PLEASE TAKE THE LISTENER FEEDBACK SURVEY BY FEB. 1! Period sex shouldn't be that big of a deal, especially with a repeat partner with whom you're comfortable. But it takes a differe

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I connect with long ago lover Helen on this week's Manwhore Podcast. She's already married, with a house, and trying to make a baby. I'm single, with a podcast, and trying to lose 20 pounds. I wonder if she'd be kicking this much ass had we ended up together. Probably not. Helen is a married woman these days after years serial monogamy. Marriage comes with all sorts of struggles. Wise beyond her years, she knows that honest communication is the bedrock of a healthy marriage. I'm sure her husband appreciates the lack of passive aggressiveness. Also, what do you do when your husband gets queezy about LGBTQ folks? A San Diego escort emails asking about her security measures. She's wor Please take my Listener Feedback Survey! Support The Manwhore Podcast and receive great rewards. Donate today by visiting my Patreon page. This week's episode is sponsored by baby oil. Dick not shiny enough? Use some baby oil. Email your comments, questions an

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida TAKE THE LISTENER FEEDBACK SURVEY RIGHT THIS SECOND! Check out the latest from Tina Horn, We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival The Tina Horn is in Brooklyn to tell Billy what's what. This Manwhore Podcast covers everything from sex work, to politcal correctness, to vore. This badass author/sex worker/educator/podcaster engages in a fun, smart, and sexy conversation from the legendary Couch of Marginalization. This show's so hot it produced an additional bonus episode because we couldn't fit it all in one hour! Tina Horn hosts one of my new favorite podcasts, Why Are People Into That?. This episode gets two of iTunes's dopest sex podcasters in the same room to talk about intimacy and butt stuff. We both ponder the important question every sex podcaster asks him or herself: have I gotten laid from the podcast??? This week's show discusses the difference between romantic love and platonic love and how the fear of one can make sexual relation

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida PLEASE FILL OUT THIS SURVEY! YOU COULD WIN A $20 BABELAND GIFT CARD! I revisit some of the best, craziest, hottest, and worst sex stuff of 2015! In front of a live studio audience of 1, I hand out Craziest Craigslist Encounter, Best Tinder Bio, and Sex Trend of the Year! I talk about my trip up to Buffalo to watch my Jets take on the Bills, then the sad sad journey home after their unexpected loss. Also, word to the wise: take caution using baby oil to jerk off. You may be prescribed c*ck rest by your local almost-doctor. Donate to The Manwhore Podcast and receive great rewards. Make your pledge today by visiting my Patreon page! This week's episode is sponsored by f*ck bois. F*ck bois: they may not spell it right but they'll f*ck you right. Email your comments, questions and boobie pictures to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Krystyna Hutchinson joins me for a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast! The Guys We F*cked co-host has seen monstrous success talking to her exes and hilarious comedians alongside her good friend Corinne Fisher. We couldn't fit more topics this week if we tried! From bisexual men to butt stuff to Bailey Jay's c*ck it's one super sexual episode! Get Krystyna and Corinne's book Fucked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That's Screwed Krystyna co-hosts a show that is the female yang to the Manwhore yin. You all know Guys We F*cked from either its endless amount of press or my appearance on their podcast last year. We discussed how podcasting about our sex lives has improved our bedroom practices. One of 2015's poster women for feminism also shares how talking to her boyfriend's porn star ex (Stoya) helped her overcome immense jealousy. I hope everyone enjoyed their Christmas or "generic Friday off work"! I spent my w

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest Caroline is a Lover Without Borders. The new Manwhore Podcast is all about love and the different ways we experience it. "Any chance to fall in love expands your horizons," says my hippie dippie guest. But there's a dark side to this podcast: Caroline is guilty of chronic ghosting! Don't worry. I got over it. Check it out! We all know what ghosting is. Ghosting is a more abrupt fade away. It's rude to inexplicably cease all communication with someone immediately after an otherwise fun encounter. Sure, some guys don't take no for an answer. And some will. Do you really want to go through life assuming the worst of everyone? Caroline has many boyfriends but she is not about that poly life. She is for all intents and purposes nonmonogamous but doesn't enjoy acknowledging monogamy as a cultural norm (even though it is). We discuss her various partners and how relationships morph and change. She also walks us through a recent br

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Many people never realize their sexual fantasies because they don't know how to make them happen. My guest Liz took to Reddit to fulfill her fantasy of group sex. Using /r/RandomActsOfBlowjob, I organized a blowbang for this eager c*cksucker several months ago. Now she's on The Manwhore Podcast to explain why someone would ever want a bunch of dicks in their face! We also give some useful tips to men and women looking to post sexy personal ads, or answer one, online. Liz has explored her sexuality by having threesomes with couples, experimenting with BDSM kink and, now, trying group sex. I recruited a half-dozen men using Reddit's /r/RandomActsOfBlowjob subreddit and Craigslist to give this young lady all the dick she can handle. The Internet is filled with a bunch of creeps, true. But so is your local bar, frat house and office holiday party. If you put out the right energy online, there is a good chance you will receive an equally respectfu

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Lauren Urasek was the most popular woman on OKCupid in New York City. If it sounds exhausting that's because it kind of is! Lauren stopped by The Manwhore Podcast and talked about her online dating ventures, what she looks for in a man and her experience as a sugar baby! Even the most messaged woman on OKCupid is still single, so don't feel bad about your current relationship status. Lauren Urasek has been on a lot of awkward Internet dates and received even more ridiculous messages. Ultimately, none of the men from OKCupid had the right stuff for her. Lauren tells me about what she looks for in a man and how dating has changed since her newfound celebrity status. Creepy messages are never okay but always hilarious. Lauren's received so many that she started a Tumblr page where she could share her most entertaining ones. It's like having a personalized /r/CreepyPMs subreddit! Check out TheyReallySaidThat.com! I went to my sex party this wee

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jane Ward just legitimized "No homo," the excuse for any masculine straight dude who wishes to cup his buddy's balls. Her new book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men is a fascinating study of why heterosexual (white) men who have homosexual encounters don't identify as gay. Lost? Then let her explain it on a very homoerotic Manwhore Podcast! Whether it's in a frat house, a military barracks or a Hell's Angel club house, straight-identified white men are having homosexual experiences with other straight-identified men. Jane Ward discusses how their masculinity and whiteness allows opportunities to explore each other's bodies without endangering their heterosexual identity. Not Gay makes sense of those Craigslist m4m ads of "Straight seeking Straight Jack Off Buddy." "Look bro, if you can't help a friend out by giving him a handjob then you're kind of a fag!" - says he-man former frat boy. #NotAllMen was a Twitter movement that angered ma

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida You may have read that podcasts are getting insanely popular. Podcasts aren't only popular but they even gained some sex appeal! What once was a desire to have sex with the groovy radio DJ in the 1960s is now the desire to bang the person behind the USB microphone. I've had sex with several listeners over the past 80 weeks and Keith Malley, one half of the popular Keith and the Girl podcasting duo, is married to a longtime listener! This y-chromosome-fueled Manwhore Podcast discusses porn clickholes, Keith's religious upbringing and growing a loving bond with your listeners. I love you all! Except a few of you, probably. Keith started a podcast with his then-girlfriend Chemda (aka "The Girl"). When they broke up in real life, a publishing contract required them to fake their relationship on air for a whole year. He shares his experience with a secret break-up. We also chat about interacting with our listeners—even when those are less-than-clo

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dating in New York City is insane. Or at least that's what this week's guest Monica says. Monica returns for Round 2 on The Manwhore Podcast to talk about dating in New York, cuffing season and butthole pleasures. Is this city designed for casual dating or is romance still possible? Hear us talk about why New York City's ample options can be both a blessing and a curse! Brace yourselves. Cuffing season is coming! Yes, the winter is upon us which means it is time to lower your Tinder settings to 1 mile and select the sex partner who brings the best snacks. Cuffing season is the time of year when you figure out which barfly you f*cked is the most suitable hibernating partner as the temperatures drop. So be aware: is that occasional f*ck buddy into you or is he/she just into the location of your genitals? As Monica reminds us New Yorkers, "Brooklyn to Brooklyn is a myth." Rimjobs are magical gifts that are possibly more generous than starting a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Open relationships are a lot of work. This week's Manwhore Podcast guest Chery knows all about that! She trained her boyfriend into living an ethically nonmonogamous lifestyle. I met Chery at a New Year's Eve naked party and we caught up talking about big d*cks, nonmonogamy and what kind of board games you can play while naked! Chery knew she was nonmonogamous and (at least) bisexual since high school. When she met her current boyfriend, the two had to ease into this lifestyle. He'd never had a girlfriend sleep with other men before. Chery has been patient with him as he warmed up to the idea of her taking on other lovers. We discuss what that was like to have different rules than her boyfriend. Parents, how do you or did you talk about sex with your children? What's the best way to have "the talk"? I read one father's bullet points from a popular Reddit post, which you can read by clicking here. Let me know if you agree or disagree. Also, t

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Every day millions of d*ck pics are sent unsolicited to women (and men!) around the world. This has caused catastrophic results. However, many women do love d*ck pics! This week's Manwhore Podcast is about one woman who loves them a whole extra lot. Soraya Doolbaz is a professional penis photographer. We talk about her art project dressing up dongs and why balls have yet to come into the frame! Soraya Doolbaz gives tips and tricks to taking the perfect d*ck pic. The first rule of c*ck shots is to make sure the recipient wants them! Unsolicited sexts "are the modern day flasher," according to Soraya. But now she is rebranding the d*ck! By giving it proper lighting, angle and personality she is creating works of art out of what were once snapshots ladies would laught at while sharing them with friends over wine. Learn hot to take a d*ck pic from a pro! Can balls be beautiful? Soraya and I discuss this oft-forgotten part of the package. "Ba

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian James Mattern is this week's guest on The Manwhore Podcast. The hardworking hustler is here with words of wisdom on women and relationships. Mattern has a ton of Yoda-like moments on this podcast and you're really in for a treat! He also has a lot of opinions about sleeping with fellow comedians. Hilarious episode! There may be no industry more incestuous than comedy. James Mattern has f*cked more than a few comedians in his day. On the one hand, they know the lifestyle and keep a similar schedule. On the other hand, you're not supposed to date at the office, right? Mattern summizes, "It's not really sh*tting where you eat. It's more like sh*tting where you snack." Having only hooked up with a few comics myself, I ask him how these always seem to come about. Spoiler alert: alcohol. Here's a taste of the prophetic thoughts of James L. Mattern: "When relationships are good, it's a Woody Allen movie. You're just firing off these one-li

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Asexuals are slowly becoming more and more mainstream in today's social conversation. The asexual umbrella includes labels like demisexual, graysexual, aromantic and more. My guest Bauer runs an asexual meet-up group called Aces NYC. We discussed being asexual, demisexuallity and what labels really mean. This one is not for the easily-offended Social Justice Warriors, but a fantastic episode! Asexuals are people who do not feel sexual attraction. So why are we talking about this on a slutty show like The Manwhore Podcast? Asexuality is an extremely valid and notable aspect of sexuality—the lack of sexual desire! Bauer and I discuss what life is like dating as an ace (nickname for 'asexual') and how she discovered her sexual orientation. Bauer also shares what it was like coming out to her friends and family as asexual. Labels are a good thing. They help us communicate to one another what something. At some point, however, labels become too m

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida No one likes getting rejected. Samantha is no exception. This week's Manwhore Podcast guest calls me out on my crap and reminds me how our short-lived fling ended. There never seems to be a good way to reject a sexual partner but there are definitely some bad ways to do it. Rejecting someone during your podcast's intro monologue is certainly one of those bad ways! Samantha is now one of my good friends. I think. We discuss friendship this week especially after hooking up. Can men and women just be friends? Of course! Well, kind of. My guest ponders her abilituy to have platonic straight male friends. Also, no one will set me up with one of their friends which is totally understandable. Chucklef*cker (n.) - a person who has sex with a lot of stand-up comedians. Samantha had the Summer of Comedians in 2014. Pro tip: first have sex with an open mic comedian and work your way up to a guy with an HBO special. F*ck up, not down. People got mad ab