The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sometimes a dude with a big d*ck is just a big d*ck. Diana returns to The Manwhore Podcast sharing the worst sex she ever had. “He had a bigger than average penis. And I could tell that he knew it and held a lot of his self-esteem in that extra inch or so.” Diana made the decision/mistake of sleeping with me again since she first came on the show back in 2014. We discuss all of the faux pas I made this second time around and how she’s gotta be in a certain mood to f*ck me. “It’s a little bit theatrical when I have sex with you. It’s always a show. You do a lot in bed.” Oops. ALSO: have you ever had an orgasm at the gym??? PLUS: female led relationships, BDSM, dating, virgins, and masturbating for clarity! We need YOUR questions about Billy for Episode 200! Email them to [email protected]! Follow me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of the fanwhore community on Patreon for as little

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “When someone puts a hand on my dry clitoris, I’m like, ‘Who raised you?’” says Emily Varnam on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. F*ckbois beware! This feminist has a social justice test before she lets you anywhere near her period panties. The 5th Vital Sign co-founder shares the joys, delights, and mehs of being a birth doula. She typically coaches people through birth control selection, pregnancy, and raising children. Needless to say, Billy learned a lot about the female body this week! ALSO: Christina Hepburn from the T&A Talk Sex podcast talks about her work as a professional cuddler! PLUS: feminism, obstetrical violence, period sex, body literacy, racism, and babies! Like The Manwhore Podcast on Facebook! Relevant Links: J. Marion Sims (corrected from Marion J. Sims) How Racism May Cause Black Mothers to Suffer the Death of Their Infants Dominique Christina’s “The Period Poem” Nicole Jordan author of Anastasia Follow The Fifth Vital Si

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jamie Loftus lost her virginity on August 15, 2010. It’s not just a statement of fact—it’s the name of her one-woman show! To celebrate the anniversary of the night she lost her V-card, the Bechdel Cast host reenacts it in front of a paying audience while the lucky fella Skypes in to co-host. Loftus tells us all about that show as well as her movie podcast The Bechdel Cast where she analyzes the portrayal of women in film. ALSO: a listener asks how I ended up identifying as “polyamorous” as opposed to “weird”! PLUS: New York City, dock men, divorced parents, dating comedians, and Jamie’s favorite betas! Jamie Loftus is awesome. Find out why! Website Twitter: @hamburgerphone Instagram: @JamieChristSuperstar The Bechdel Cast ”Make Them Leave” Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $20 off premium wine delivery with Winc! Use promo code MANWHORE! Email your comments, questions, and

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I’m not sure if Nick Hawk is a gigolo or a life guru after chatting with the Showtime star. “The ego is part of you. Embrace it,” he says on an all new Manwhore Podcast. “We confuse confidence with arrogance a lot.” I walked into his midtown hotel room convinced we would discuss the ins and outs of selling sex, but we entered a higher plane discussing creativity, confidence, and anxiety. What do those topics have to do with being one of America’s leading male escorts? Apparently everything! The 100 Kicks in the Ass author wants you to get a little cocky as you elevate your life. “F*ck humility. I hate it!” ALSO: a trans man gets a lot of unqualified advice from a cissy boy! PLUS: stripping, comedy, listener feedback, alcoholism, MeToo movement, and Craigslist Chronicles! Follow Nick Hawk! Website Twitter: @TheNickHawk Instagram: @TheNickHawk Nick Hawk’s 100 Kicks in the Ass: A Guide to Gaining Confidence & Reaching Your Full Potential Fol

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “I usually drug myself before I have sex with him,” says this week’s Manwhore Podcast guest. Dove is a sugar baby. She’s a sugar baby who detests her clients. “I like them when they’re losers because they’re easy.” Hear how this young woman went from dating me to making $30,000 this year off of just one guy! If I’m the cause, shouldn’t I get a cut? ALSO: I got yelled at by a strange man at a sex party on Saturday. If he wanted me to run out of the house crying, all he had to do was call me fat! Oh well. PLUS: nudes, New York dating, rejection, threesomes, communication, and rich dudes! Enter to win a free Stay Slutty button by answering this survey! Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1(.38). Click here to pledge today! Support The Manwhore Podcast by signing up for Winc. Email your comments, questions, a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Everyone wants to steal your mind space,” says Daniel Saynt, the Chief Conspirator and Founder of New York City’s hot new sex club NSFW—the New Society For Wellness. “Everyone wants to steal your attention. Especially if you’re doing something that’s pushing something forward.” Saynt is not without his haters, but he pays them no mind. The bisexual sex party mischief-maker hopes to help his members realize sexual enlightenment through kink demos, consent workshops, and cannabis cooking classes. Hear how he went from a bi-closeted married man to running a house of ill repute (and dank weed) on an all-new Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: religious orgies, stigma, comprehensive sex education, bukkake car wash, enthusiastic consent, and polyamory! Follow Daniel Saynt and NSFW! Twitter: @DanielSaynt, @wearensfw Instagram: @danielsaynt, @wearensfw NSFW Facebook page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge tod

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amber Rollo left the glitter-ridden stripper stage for a different stage with a less sturdy pole and a solid brick wall. Amber and I exchanged dirt to prepare for our roast battle at The Stand Comedy Club in New York City. I learned that she was an awkward bisexual youth with dead parents. She learned that a bunch of idiots with questionable taste used to pay me to take my clothes off on webcam. This week’s Manwhore Podcast ends with the critique of a listener’s sexting novellas—upon his request! PLUS: alcoholism, bisexual, erotica, privileged stripping, and James Joyce farts! Follow Amber Rollo on the internet: Website Twitter: @ambercrollo Instagram: @ambercrollo Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram.: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Reddit: /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Online dating consultant Steve Dean is so good at dating that he went on a first date…that lasted 17 hours! “I like to think of my dates as having chapters to them,” Dean says. But what happens if I want to skip the boring chapter with a bunch of flashbacks of her father?! The polyamorous “digital nomad” returns to The Manwhore Podcast to discuss the terrifying topic of dating, from how to open conversations on Tinder to how to pick a first date location. When in doubt? “Gifs,” he says. PLUS: relationship anarchy, friendship first, the Pure Hook-up App, and gifs! Follow Steve Dean: Dateworking.com Twitter: @stevenmdean Writings on Medium Follow me: Twitter Instagram Facebook Reddit Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.com! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Maya attended a sex party to get her mojo back. Instead, she found me. What a bummer! Maya dropped me because I was too young for her—a mere 12-year age gap. On this week’s Manwhore Podcast, I challenge her to find one of a plethora of valid reasons to not date me. As she does so, we talk about escaping an abusive marriage and searching for intimacy in a city of f*ckboys. She’s done chasing meaningless orgasms! This woman wants a connection! Pffft, I got a guy at Best Buy who sells those. PLUS: divorce, polyamory, sex-positive parenting, Craigslist Chronicles, age, and sex parties! Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for as little as $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.com! Support The Manwhore Podcast by signing up for premium wine delivery with Win

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It seems like everyone and their sister is doing porn these days. Porn publicist Lainie Speiser remembers when the adult entertainment industry had true stars! “There are no superstars anymore,” Speiser recalls. “There’s no Jenna Jameson, Jesse Jane, Lisa Anne because everybody’s doing it and it makes it so not special.” In the Age of the Internet, anyone fill out a tax form, turn on their web cam, and get paid to get naked (or burp in their underwear) for strangers. “I definitely get snitty with people online who claim that they’re in the porn business. I’m like, ‘If you’ve got another job, you’re not in the porn business!’” Hear how one woman got a writing job that wasn’t safe for your work on this week’s Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: transgender performers, public relations, Belle Knox, monogamy, comedy, and sports sex! Follow @MissLainie on Twitter! Buy her books! Follow me online: Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida The Ma

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Rachel Schenk was easily the star of the very first Manwhore Podcast: Live! Sadly, the Oct. 8th show is lost to time due to a botched recording. So I called (texted) Rachel to come back for a full episode! The comedian guest remembers nearly nothing of our *über romantic* evenings together years ago. We instead discussed her most difficult break-up…with her gay bandmate. Together they’ve made problematic music videos, sang about dicks, and stripped down naked. Schenk admits she wanted to shout, “Just show it to me!” after years together, but his husband requested him to cover up. PLUS: being an ally, BDSM, lost phone, advice emails, Big Mouth, and comedy! Buy her Afterbirth Monkey album Making a Beeline to Wasted! Follow Rachel (online, not on the street)!: Twitter: @iamrachelschenk Instagram: @rachelquirky Follow me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Like the Facebook page you coward! Become a member of my fanwhore c

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Mindy Raf is ready to get back into the dating game. Her and her fiancé are still together, but the polyamorous comedian is finally making room in her life for a new partner! But polyamory comes with homework. Books, podcasts, think pieces—all aim to assist you with the emotional labor attached to having multiple romantic relationships. Poly problems have already arose in her introduction to online dating: does she disclose that she has a fiancé in her bio? Find out on this all new Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, pansexual, Unicornland, dating apps, angry emails, and “lovely consensual encounters”! Meet my intern at tomorrow’s Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout! Check out Mindy Raf on the internets! Website Twitter: @mindyraf Instagram: @mmmindela Here are some links for stuff mentioned on this week’s episode: End Rape On Campus Know Your IX Professor Marston and the Wonder Women Unicornland Friend of the pod Ef

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Tao Ruspoli is monogamish. After his very public divorce with a celebrity actress, the Italian prince (yes, literally a prince) set out on a journey to figure out society’s obsession with monogamy and marriage. That journey became the film Monogamish, out in theaters now. “Why do marriage and monogamy exist?” Ruspoli asks during this fascinating Manwhore Podcast. Hear us search for an answer in this discussion of polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy (and monogamy)! PLUS: relationship anarchy, content, Craigslist Chronicles, ManwhoreCon, masculinity, and privacy! Check out the movie Monogamish as it tours the country! NYC: Oct. 18, 19 SF: Oct. 25, 26, 27, 28 LA: November Like it on Facebook! Become a member of my fanwhore community for as little as $1. Click here to pledge today! Support for The Manwhore Podcast comes from the Motorbunny. Get $50 off yours with promo code MANWHORE! Get $20 off your first month of premium wine delivery with

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Morgan was one of my Hyde School crushes. I used to write her sappy love poems calling her my Wiccan Goddess. Oh, brother. We’ve got more wild boarding school sex stories involving ninja-like virginity loss and toe-banging under a picnic table! I also recount my feelings about ManwhoreCon and the special group of diehard fans who joined me. PLUS: Revel Furniture, bad boys, dating gay guys, pregnant, single mom, and nice guys! Follow me online: Twitter @TheBillyProcida Instagram @TheBillyProcida The Manwhore Podcast Facebook page /r/ManwhorePodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community for as little as $1. Click here to pledge today! Support for The Manwhore Podcast comes from the Motorbunny. Get $50 off yours with promo code MANWHORE! Start sportsbetting with a 100% deposit bonus on MyBookie.ag with promo code MANWHORE! Email your comments, questions, and boobie pictures to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com. Learn more about

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida When KarenLee Poter found out her son had his first one night stand, she couldn’t have been happier for him! Not your typical motherly reaction to a son getting his dick wet from some casual sex. It’s not unusual for Karen and her son, comedian Cameron Poter, to have frank conversations about sex. In fact, they do it nearly every week on their podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. But if you talk about raunchy sex topics with your mother all the time, what does it take to make them uncomfortable? I tried to push some buttons on this week’s Manwhore Podcast! ALSO: I’m joined by musician and amateur board game maker Carsie Blanton to talk about her fun, new party game The F’ing Truth! PLUS: MILF, #DeadDad, masturbation, Crash Pad Series, suicide, and Nina Hartley the Sex Mentor! Click here for tickets to the FIRST Manwhore Podcast: Live! show in New York City! Listen to Sex Talk With My Mom on your favorite podcast app! Follow all my guests! KarenL

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida David Piccolomini has big dick problems. The problem is he can’t relate to the average c*ck, I mean, guy. Raised in a “baptist co-op homeschool”, David’s goal at a young age was to be fantastic at sex. He researched. He studied. He practiced. And the Tinder Tales host is a polyamorous sexual pro. Oh, you don’t believe him? That’s fair. I suppose you’ll have to f*ck him to find out. Yes, I realize that this is an episode with two straight, white men talking about all of the sex they have. What can I say? I’m an innovative motherf*cker. PLUS: faking orgasms, LARPing, communication, asking for nudes, body painting, and ManwhoreCon! Be a part of the first Manwhore Podcast: Live! show October 8th! Get tix at manwhorepod.com/live! Listen to David Piccolomini’s podcast Tinder Tales! Follow David on Twitter: @Piccolomeany Tickets are still available for ManwhoreCon in New York City! Click here to get your weekend pass! Join my fanwhore community

My friend Roxanne complained for the umpteenth time, “Billy, I am having such a hard time getting laid!” Of course, she can find a man to stick it in her at a moment’s notice—just open a window. But my female friends tell me that finding a partner with a high sexual IQ who cares about her pleasure (without factoring in physical attraction and personality) is a frustratingly difficult experience. That’s why on this week’s Manwhore Podcast we are holding ORAL SEX AUDITIONS! Yes! Five male suitors compete in this cunnilingus contest for the ultimate prize of f*cking my friend. No more bragging about how much you love eating p*ssy at the bar, then forgetting all about your claims of prowess once your d*ck gets hard. It’s time to prove yourself, fellas! Hear Roxanne go from lockjawed blowqueen to pillow princess on the only episode where I can see the female orgasm in sound waves. ALSO: hear Goddess Lola Jean take on the high demand-low supply wrestling fetish! PLUS: sex god, cunnilingus, rape, sexual frustration

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amanda has survived a sexual assault, a failed suicide attempt, and years of predatory grooming as a teenaged cosplayer surrounded by Nerd Kings of a certain age. Sexual assault continues to dominate headlines as victims and allies alike refuse to stay silent about rape culture in this country, especially on our college campuses. I don’t know how to fix the criminal justice system to honor the victims of one of the hardest crimes to prove. But so long as we don’t shut up about it, we just may make a dent. I am so grateful that Amanda returned for another Manwhore Podcast to share her story of love, sex, and courage. ALSO: Hear why I agree, sort of, with Trump twat Betsy DeVos on Title IX! PLUS: alpha female, two boyfriends, anime conventions, bartenders, cheating, and The Naked Man! Click here for tickets to Manwhore Podcast: Live! Or click here to attend all of ManwhoreCon! Visit BASA.bar for more on Bartenders Against Sexual Assault. Tit

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Nikki Silver is hairy. Very hairy. Lives in the woods surrounded by feminist literature hairy. Nikki creates porn that caters to those who fetishize natural body hair! Her site, Naughty Natural, showcases sexy women with armpit hair, facial hair, leg hair, and big, beautiful bushes. “I was a little sex maniac,” the Long Island native shares when asked how she got into the porn industry. Nikki Silver joins me for an unshaven episode of The Manwhore Podcast! ALSO: my summer intern shares her worst college sex story! PLUS: incest roleplay, ManwhoreCon, age play, Designer Relationships, cats, and stinky pits! Get yourself a copy of Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships. It’s the first poly book to teach me something new. Check out Nikki Silver (NSFW)! NaughtyNatural.com Twitter: @xNikkiSilverx My summer intern may be leaving us, but you should still follow her on social media!

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Comedian Liz Glazer is not your typical lesbian. There’s no dick envy. She is not disgusted by the male body. It’s more pity, if anything. “If I had a part of my body that was so needy in moments of sexual desire—which I can feel empathy for—I don’t think I could handle it.” The closest she gets is wearing one of her Realdoes. Liz pops by The Manwhore Podcast breaking down the different seasons of the TV show that is Her Life. Spoiler alert: she murders all the men at the R Red Wedding! PLUS: kissing, high sex, New York City, college boyfriend, long distance relationships, and monogamy! Buy Low Life by Luc Sante. Join me for ManwhoreCon in New York City October 7-8! Click here to get your tickets today! Follow Liz on the webs: Twitter: @ElizabethGlazer Instagram: @LizGlazer The Penny Project: @PennyProject Join our fanwhore community on Patron for as little as $1! Click here to become a member! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by the PU