The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Don’t you find that hosting a podcast about this stuff, we are just swimming in lube?” says Angela Spera, co-host of the hit dating show This Is Why You’re Single. And she’s right! After appearing on her and Laura Lane’s podcast a couple years ago, Spera joins me to discuss sex, dating, and men who steal toilet paper during dates. We both have faced the burden of dating while podcasting—or podcasting while dating?—and the difficulties of discerning what goes on the pod and what stays private. ALSO: Vanessa Cuccia, CEO of Chakrubs, co-hosts this week’s intro to tell me about her p*ssy crystals! PLUS: high school lesbian sleepovers, masturbation, big sister advice, and blocking your ex on social media! Join me for today’s Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout at 3pm EST! Join your fellow fanwhores at ManwhoreCon in New York City this August! Get your weekend pass before prices go up June 3rd! Follow Angela Spera! Twitter: @speradactyl Facebook Fa

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http;//linktr.ee/billyprocida “Just don’t be creepy,” might be the most worthless piece of dating advice men receive. My guest Jennifer and I go over the ambiguous instruction and how it carries over into play party etiquette. My friend and former lover also has some valuable thoughts on how to manage tertiary partners when practicing polyamory. ALSO: Someone very close to me said she thought it was disgusting and disrespectful that I talk on social media about eating p*ssy. Know what I think is disgusting and disrespectful? Not eating p*ssy. PLUS: positivity, tantra sex work, public masturbation, couples therapy, ManwhoreCon, and pet play! RSVP for next week’s Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout on May 30 at 3pm EST! Meet me and your fellow fanwhores in New York City at ManwhoreCon August 3-5! Get your weekend pass today! Follow Me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Join our fanwhore community for just $1! Click here to become a membe

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jessica Drake is one of the last true stars in the adult entertainment industry. With nearly 20 years in the business, she is one of the most sought-after actresses and wins an award or two nearly every year. Drake, a condoms-only performer, is also an award-winning sex educator. Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex is a series of educational DVDs teaching adults what they didn’t learn in school “through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars.” We tackle her passion for sex education and the porn star community on this week’s captivating Manwhore Podcast! ALSO: Hear a teaser clip of my bonus episode with financial dominatrix Goddess Venus! PLUS: HIV scares, Prop 60, trans women, alternative porn, and advocacy! Join us in New York City this August for ManwhoreCon! Click here to get your weekend pass today! Follow Jessica Drake! Twitter: @realjessicadrake Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex Watcher her on Wick

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida A young Hasidic woman who battled her views on religion grew up to have sex with strangers for money. And there ain’t nothing wrong with that! The more questionable decision was when River Summers mounted her manwhore-ish Tinder date and contemplated having sex with him for free. My guest this week is a wonderful woman and sex worker who recounts our brief (unpaid) time together a few years ago. We also discuss the harmful effects of the new FOSTA/SESTA laws that attack women’s safety, free speech, and an open internet. Learn how you can help keep sex workers safe on this all new Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: polyamory, cool kids, happy ending massages, sex-positive dating, and Billy’s F*ckboi Era! Join us in New York City this August for ManwhoreCon! Click here to get your weekend pass today! Mentioned in the episode: SESTA-FOSTA Proves Lawmakers Don’t See Sex Workers Like Me As Human by Andre Shakti Follow River! Website Twitter: @RiverSummers

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Slut-shaming is a cause near and dear to Emily Lindin’s heart. She published the beautiful and heartbreaking diary and memoir Unslut to shine light on the sexual bullying she faced as a coming-of-age girl. Today she runs The UnSlut Project fighting sexist stigma and shaming. We discuss mens’ roles in building a consent culture. “Get over the fear of friends, brothers, whoever, rolling their eyes at you and being like, “Oh, maybe you’re a cuck.” Cuck off! ALSO: I announce how YOU can win a FREE trip to ManwhoreCon in New York City this August! PLUS: sex education, Aziz Ansari, female pleasure, faking orgasms, and a “disloyal” fan! Join us for ManwhoreCon 2018 in New York City! Click here to get your weekend pass! Mentioned on the show: Babe.net Aziz Ansari piece Kendra Sunderland Follow Emily Lindin! Twitter: @EmilyLindin The UnSlut Project UnSlut: A diary and a Memoir Enjoy the perks of fanwhore membership for just $2! Click here to join

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Remy Kassimir couldn’t c*m…until just a few weeks ago! The How Cum? host joins this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss the female orgasm and how it eluded her for so many years. The path includes sex toys, faked orgasms, and lots of masturbation! What was the key to her success? Just some simple suction from a machine with a terrible name. PLUS: transgender military ban, anticipation, high school love poems, knee sex, and #PayForYourPorn! Join me in New York City for ManwhoreCon August 3-5! Click here to get your tickets today! Follow Remy Kassimir! Twitter: @RemyKassimir Instagram: @RemyKassimir How Cum? podcast The Genderbread Man Enjoy the perks of fanwhore membership for just $2! Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Hot Movies. Try it with 40 FREE minutes when you sign up at www.ManwhorePod.com/HotMovies! Email your comments, questions, and boobie pictures to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.co

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jay Taylor is a hustling porn starlet managing dozens of clip stores with her boyfriend at Slamdog Films. She’s coming up in the industry having shot with some of porn’s big stars like Nina Hartley, Cherie DeVille, Chanel Preston, and…James Deen. Deen, one of her closest friends, has been accused of rape and sexual assault by multiple porn actresses (which he denies). "I was devastated and sick to my stomach for two days, but never once did I deviate from James’s side. Not once,” Taylor says on this week’s explosive Manwhore Podcast. To make matters more interesting, she is also one of the many women accusing porn hedgehog Rob Jeremy of sexual assault in the blockbuster Rolling Stones exposé. In a world of public shaming and Trial by Twitter (and a broken criminal justice system), how do we decide who is guilty, who is innocent, and who is just kind of a dick? ALSO: We get a sneak peek at my indie porn bonus episode with MacKenzie Peck, Editor

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Fans approach porn performers and other sex workers with grabby disrespect. “I’ve seen so many comments like, ‘She’s a porn star. She gets grabbed all the time on set, so why shouldn’t we grab her on the street?” recalls cam girl Ginger Banks. “Do we go up to UFC fighters and just punch them in the face and say, ‘That’s your job!’” Sex workers are people, too. In light of FOSTA/SESTA and the subsequent shut down of websites that kept women safe, social justice is overlapping with the adult entertainment industry more than ever before! Now is the time to listen to these performers before free speech on the internet gets dismantled even further. Oh, and we talk about how Ron Jeremy got banned from the AVN Awards. PLUS: racism in porn, webcamming, outercourse, swinging in Trump country, callout culture, and No Lists! Donate to the ManwhoreCon Scholarship Fund! Venmo @BillyProcida to send a lucky listener to New York City! Mentioned on the show

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is the filthiest podcast episode I have ever made. Sarah wanted to blow me. Why? Great question. I arranged three drivers to take her different legs of the journey from her city to mine. And, naturally, she had to thank each of these men with some head! Stranger play sounds like the easiest way to get murdered in the face—but gosh is it fun! Let her story encourage you to make your dream a reality. Many people cite logistics, safety, or fear to explain why they haven’t pursued their sexiest fantasies. But you can’t get what you don’t ask for! PLUS: multiple orgasms, car sex tips, perverted daddy, Instagram DMs, and sex-positivity! Join me and Sarah at ManwhoreCon this August! Follow Billy Procida: Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook fan page Enjoy the perks of fanwhore membership for just $2! Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by AdamMale.com. Get 35% off any one item when you us

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Most men aren’t confident enough to approach women on a train,” says comedian Eagle Witt. This week’s Manwhore Podcast guest stresses the difference between street harassment and real world flirtation. My guest believes that women will speak up when they want you to leave them alone. “A woman is not mute,” Witt insists. “She will turn you down—quickly. And when that happens, the most important thing is that’s it. Once you get turned down, disengage.” Two straight men discuss how women experience the world. How could this possibly go wrong?! PLUS: slutty guys, nonmonogamy, advice, #PayForYourPorn, race, rape accusations, and self-slutshaming! ManwhoreCon weekend pass prices go up on April 3rd. Enjoy the super early bird discount today! Follow Eagle Witt (but be nice!): Twitter: @EagleWitt Instagram: @EagleWitt Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Enjoy the perks of fanwhore membership for j

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Nicoletta Heidegger is an MFT associate and sexologist who thinks there’s nothing strange with being a sex-loving smartypants. “I can be a slut and a scholar at the same time. It doesn’t have to be either/or,” she shares. That’s why she started the Sluts & Scholars podcast! Heidegger joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss how to fight fairly with your partner and how to handle being called out on social media. Can you guess who that second one is directed towards? ALSO: I share a recent regrettable sexual experience that reminded me to advocate for myself. PLUS: disabilities, death threats, impromptu orgies, pegging, therapy and Love, Simon! Mentioned on the show: Sexual Health Alliance AASECT Hacienda Follow Nicoletta Heidegger! Website Twitter: @msheidegger Instagram: @msheidegger Sluts & Scholars Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $2! Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by AdamMa

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Men sometimes fall folly to the mantra, “Once a slut, always a slut.” It’s at the heart of most of the slut-shaming that occurs in this world. One slut I know has since hung up her scarlet letter—although she’s not certain she’ll stay retired forever. Anna SuperSlut named herself such while making a tear through New York City’s Tinder scene. “New York City is one of the best cities to be a slut in!” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “There’re so many men to choose from.” But something caused the her to tone it down and focus on meaningful, loving relationships. It may not be the reason you think! PLUS: intimacy, Baby Jew, platonic love, Open Love NY, grief, and Billy’s Dick Review! ManwhoreCon Super Early Bird Discount passes are on sale for a limited time only! Mentioned in the episode: Kenneth Play Adam Courtney Sex With Timaree Daniel Saynt House of Yes Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $1! Click here to join t

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Ryan Driller is a machine. So says Ryan Driller. Being a male porn star, you kind of have to be. Shoots can take hours, and you have to be able to get rock hard and ready to go at a moment’s notice. Then you also have to be kind of good at sex. Ryan shares his pre-porn weight loss journey as well as his queer encounters with fans out in public on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. Life is just really tough for the guy with abs, women, and a c*ck that won’t quit! ALSO: My dear friend Emily Lubin helps me answer some advice questions and talks about her love of licking buttholes! PLUS: stamina, facial hair, Jared Fogle, happy endings, Bumble bios, and dumb confidence! Enjoy a super early bird discount on your ManwhoreCon weekend pass until April 3rd! Visit www.ManwhorePod.com/tickets! Follow Ryan Driller: Twitter: @ryandriller Instagram: @ryandriller Follow Emily Lubin: Twitter: @lubination Instagram: @hotmesscomedyhour Listen to The Hot Mess Co

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dudes aren’t the only people who can exhibit toxic masculinity. Pre-woke comedian Elsa Waithe was a queer, butch f*ckboi once upon a time. But now she is a leader in the New York City activist movement, leading protests against racial oppression and anti-queer Trump antics. Activism even led her to Love in a fascinating Black Lives Matter meet cute. Hear her story and start making a protest sign! Check your privilege at the door—and roll your eyes at me if you must! ALSO: Dillon Birdsall has an exciting update about his documentary V-Card! PLUS: racism, “girl clothes”, Facebook jail, gender, Proud Boys, and #MeToo apologies! Hashtag Pay For Your Porn! This month I supported Trenchcoatx! Mentioned in the show: Them.us The Proud Boys Swipe It Forward Safety Pin Box See Elsa record a half-hour on March 2nd! Get tickets for V-Card: The Film at Cinekink on March 15th! Check out Elsa Waithe online! Twitter: @elsajustelsa Affirmative Laughter

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We all have our shameful moments. I happen to have many of them. Allison joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to reminisce about my peak f*ckboi phase in 2015. She and I sit down and “go to the tape” reading our final text exchanges that led to me losing out on a second date. ALSO: a kinky newbie is nervous about entering a 24/7 d/s relationship with a man she’s known for 2 weeks. Is this normal kink or is he a controlling psycho? PLUS: Tinder, casual sex, break-up text messages, ManwhoreCon news, and a sad announcement! Super Early Bird discount tickets are available for a limited time only! Get your weekend pass today at http://manwhorepod.com/tickets. Mentioned in the episode: Qualities to Look for in a REAL Dominant by Delanie Moore A Field Guide to Creepy Dom[sic] by Asher Bauer Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook fan page Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $1! Click h

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Transgender porn star Venus Lux has run off to join a bunch of queers living in the woods of Tennessee. “Follow the trail of glitter and you’ll find your tribe!” Although Venus Lux is planning on her life after porn, she still plans to use her success to change how trans is treated by the adult entertainment industry and its fans. “Can I make a difference? Can I make a change? Can I motion a revolution?” I think she can! This special Manwhore Podcast comes to you from the AVN Awards in Las Vegas! PLUS: creepy fans, Billy’s boobs, advice emails, AOL chat rooms, family, and jizzing out! Mentioned on the show: Kink.com Sgt. Miles Mandy Mitchell Check out Venus Lux! Website Twitter: @VenusLux Only Fans Become a member of our fanwhore community on Patreon. Click here to join today! Be a dandy! Enjoy 50% off your first month of condoms when you sign up at beadandy.com/podcast! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida OMG! This is episode 200! Who would have thought that my penis could carry a show for this long?! I kid: we all know the ladies are the true stars of this show! On this milestone episode of The Manwhore Podcast, I hand the hosting duties over to two gorgeous fanwhores to interview me. They ask who I’m going gay for, why I stopped talking to my family for two years, what is it about gambling that’s so fun, and if I ever had to “come out” as polyamorous—and more! PLUS: AOL chat rooms, body image, T-Dar, asian food, failed threesomes, and coming out queer! Seriously, thank you all so much for tuning in and supporting the show. Whether this is your first time listening or you’ve binged through it all, you are the reason this podcast has such a wonderful community around it. Let me know what this show has meant to you! Follow Lindsay on Twitter: @LindsayCins4U Follow Billy online: Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Become a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Hamiltoe is the porn parody we didn’t know we needed. The pun is so obvious that it’s astonishing no one had made it yet. So when Eitan Levine pitched a Hamilton porn parody to Wood Rocket, they instantly bought it. The comedian tells me the story of how the historical porn parody got made! PLUS: public sex, AVN Awards, #PayForYourPorn, jerking off in a movie theater, and Sing Street! Please join me in paying for your porn! Buy a membership somewhere and tweet me what you chose! Follow Eitan Levine on the places! Twitter: @eitanthegoalie Instagram: @eitanthegoalie Follow me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook: Manwhore Podcast fan page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for as little as $1! Click here to join today! Go to a 24/7 digital strip club in your home on Cam Soda! Get 50 free tokens when you sign up at camsoda.com/podcast! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Pure. Download Pure to g

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida There’s a particular brand of nonmonogamy that’s been around for ages with a pseudo-acceptance from mainstream society. Swingers typically play with other people—together! Elle has had quite the sexual journey since her first appearance on the pod over 3 years ago! She started having threesomes, going to sex parties, and then got an equally hot swinger boyfriend. Along the way, she found herself bored and horny enough to crawl into my bed. Why? Well….I asked her! ALSO: I make a major announcement about my love life! PLUS: Charity Couples, insecurity, bondage, drugs, bartender camp, and The Naked City! Join us next week for the Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout on The Manwhore Podcast fan page! Email your questions about Billy for episode 200 to [email protected]! Follow Billy’s AVN trip to Las Vegas on social media! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon f

Stay up-to-date on future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Becky Berardi is the foot fetish queen of New York City. Feet have been a core part of her dating life ever since high school! Something newer in her life is having a boat load of fans thanks to her popular YouTube Channel The Bad Ass Becky Show. But with success comes the occasional overenthusiastic admirer. Becky and I get off her feet to discuss having boundaries with your fans. She’s arguably way better at setting limits than I am. With sexually charged shows like ours, strangers get a tad too familiar when reaching out. Are you giving polite compliments or being just plain creepy?! PLUS: sexy feet, frivolous labels, sexual harassment, fan friendships, and foot jobs! Follow Becky Berardi! The Bad Ass Becky Show Twitter: @badassbeckyshow Instagram: @badassbeckyshow Facebook Fan Page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1! Click here to join today! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]